A Culture of Excess

Have you ever thought about how much stuff you and your family have? It’s been on my mind a lot lately. Our American culture is one of excess.

Yet, for all that we have, we’re probably still no more contented, at peace, happy, successful or loved than if we lived a more simple life. (Plus, at least in my house, it often results in having more stuff to clean up and maintain.) Here are a few examples of excess we live with:

  • Calendar appointments
  • Long to do lists
  • Unused apps on phones
  • Unread books
  • DVR recordings
  • Hundreds of television channels
  • Clothes we’re saving for our skinny self or for when they come back in style
  • Nice dishes that never get eaten on
  • Craft supplies
  • Toys
  • Gadgets
  • Computer files
  • Digital photos
  • Superficial friendships on Facebook, Twitter and other social media outlets
  • Unhealthy calories consumed
  • DVDs we never watch
  • CDs we’ve long forgotten we own

I’m working on simplifying things. It’s  a long process. I secretly envy people who write about moving to a foreign country or small town with two bags of possessions. Already, I’ve spent two days going through my side of the closet, and it’s still a mess. I get overwhelmed by all the stuff and want to quit.

Part of the difficulty is the letting go. Even with things that have sat unused for years, it’s hard convincing myself that I don’t really need something or really won’t use it; but I’m slowly getting there. My plan is to work my way through each room of our house. This 31 Days of Margin series couldn’t have been timed any better. I’m learning a lot about creating space and getting rid of excess.

What about you…Do you ever feel like you have too much in your life? What things are hardest for you to give up?

p.s. I'm catching up on the Love Tune-Up series this weekend. It's been a full week of running for a 5K I'm doing this weekend and our Church's annual conference. I also had two guests posts this week: Stay Sane While Blogging and 101 Days of Christmas: Peppermint Hand Scrub. Please stop by and check them out.

Keeping Up With The To Do Lists

We do the things we schedule and schedule the things that are important. Our success is ultimately determined by our daily agenda.

A really sweet friend hooked me up with access to the Chick-fil-A Leadercast videos which is where I heard John Maxwell say these words. It was kind of jarring because I’m so guilty of always talking about things that I want to do, that I never make plans to do (ahem, like exercising) and recycling my to do’s from one week to the next. So, after hearing John’s words, I decided to come up with a new to do list system that I’d stick with. After trying variosu Franklin Covey calendars, to do list apps and other tools over the years, I think I’ve finally found a winner.

to do list system

This system is pretty easy and basic, though you do have to put in some planning time. Because I was skeptical about whether it would work or not, I’ve actually been using it for the past few weeks just to make sure.

Supplies Needed

  • Pack of index cards
  • Any calendars you use
  • List of any goals/action items you have
  • Pen
  • Large paper clip

How it Works

At the start of each week, set aside time to review your week. I’ve been doing my review on Sunday nights before going to bed.

Index card #1 – Take one index card and write out a scripture or affirmation–anything that will keep you motivated throughout the week. You can use the same thing from week-to-week or switch it up every week like I do. At least once a day, you read over your affirmation. If you’re really ambitious, you can even work on commiting it to memory during the week.

Index card #2 – Take a second index card and do a brain dump of any and everything you should be doing. Be sure to consider what’s coming up on your calendar. Go through your emails to see if you have any outstanding follow-up items. Check with your spouse or kids. Look over your goals to see if their are any short-term goals you can be working on. If you come up with additional items during the week be sure to add them here.

For me, as I started to see my card fill up, I quickly became very good at deciphering what really needed to be done and what didn’t. Admittedly, I’m kind of paranoid about losing my brain dump card seeing as though once I write something down, it’s out of mind. I’ll usually take a picture of the brain dump card with my phone, just in case.  

Index card #3 – You’ll use a separate index card for each day of the weeek to assign your daily to do’s. Word to the wise–don’t put too much on any one day or you may end up defeated and overwhelmed. Since I work full-time outside the home, I try to limt myself to 2-4 day tasks (things I can done at lunch, over the phone or on my way home from work) and 4-6 night tasks (things I can do once I get home from work). Of course, it all depends, too, on how much work is required for each task. You’ll find that this step also helps you get organized for your day.

The Results

I’m getting things done. While I may end the day with a few undone tasks, I’m much more efficient about how I’m spending my time. I’m also more wary of when I’m wasting time, steady checking to see if there’s something that I could be doing.  

Warnings

  • This system is working for me, but I can’t guarantee it’ll be as effective for you.
  • It does no good to create your lists if you never look at them.
  • Give yourself grace if you don’t get everything done.
  • Learn to say “no” to new commitments.

The Mt. Everest of Organizing Projects

Do you want to know one organizing project that I have yet to tackle, let alone successfully master? It’s the one thing (ok, let’s be real–one of several things) that makes my head hurt when I see it. It’s been on my “someday” to do a list for awhile, yet vacation days, holidays and weekends have passed with not even the smallest dent made. So, what’s My Mt. Everest of organizing projects…

Our computer files.

dropbox

Given that I’m reaching my Dropbox storage limit, I thought it was time to deal with the mess of files I have everywhere–not only on Dropbox, but the computer and laptop, the external drive and Evernote. My photos need to be organized still. My blog files are a mess. I have old files I don’t need. Duplicates and triplicates of photos spread everywhere. File names that give little clue of their contents. Surely, I can’t be the only one.

Of course, I could continue ignoring the problem and just buy more cloud storage or bigger external drives. But the way my brain’s wired for organization, I can’t let it go.

So starting next week my goal is to dedicate at least 15 minutes a few days a week to organizing computer files. I won’t even pretend that I’ll be able to finish in a few weeks or even a month. I have files dating back to my college days, so I’m thinking this is the project that’ll keep going and going and going. But as the saying goes, the best way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.

What do you say…anyone else feeling me on the out of control computer files? Are the photos on your computer one big happy mess too?